how we’ll work together
(aka: how to make this work for both of us)
real results need real understanding—of your brain and mine
I don’t do “boss babe hustle.”
I don’t do “just be more disciplined.”
I don’t do high-stimulation, Slack-at-midnight, always-on energy.
I do systems that protect your capacity.
I do work rhythms that keep us both grounded.
I do honest, brain-honoring structures that create real results—without depletion.
This page exists so we both know what to expect—and neither of us ends up burnt out or guessing.
Let’s get into it.
TL;DR:
This isn’t about being “high maintenance.”
It’s about doing meaningful work without sacrificing ourselves to it.
I’ve designed my business to support how I operate—so I can fully support yours.
the basics: how my brain works—and why that matters
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ADHD with a splash of autism (and a strong aversion to fake small talk).
So I know what it’s like when “just follow the SOP” shuts your brain down. And I’ve built my business to support brains like mine… and yours.
This isn’t a performance of productivity.
It’s a structure that holds us both—so the work actually lands.
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I’m not great with constant pings or chaotic threads.
But I am exceptional at going deep. Pattern-matching. Diagnosing the real root—beneath the noise.
What that means for you:
When we meet, I’m all in. Present, prepared, unhurried.
And I bring the kind of clarity that only comes from paying attention to what others miss.
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I don’t give hot takes. I give accurate ones.
My best insights come after a walk, a pause, a proper marination.
What that means for you:
You’ll get answers that hold up—not quick guesses that collapse.
I don’t fill space to sound smart. I wait until it’s clear. Then speak.
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You’re not the exception here. You’re the design constraint.
This is built for you.
things I fully get:
Executive dysfunction
Energy dips mid-task
Zoom fatigue
“I forgot to reply and now I feel shame” spirals
what we can do:
Shorter calls? Yes.
Written recaps? Always.
Slower pacing? Absolutely.
You don’t have to mask. You don’t have to push. We adapt.
communication stuff:
how we stay connected
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I’m more articulate in Voxer and email than in rapid-fire Zoom chats. It’s not antisocial—it’s intentional.
Quick Qs → Voxer
Bigger things → Email
Strategy convos → Zoom (with agendas, always)
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Voxer: 24–48 hrs
Email: 48–72 hrs
Urgent? Flag it—but urgency here is rare, not rewarded.
Deep work means I protect focus—for your benefit, not just mine.
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Clear agenda (sent ahead)
One main topic per session
Defined start + end time (no Zoom fatigue)
Summary + action steps after (so you’re not left guessing)
This helps both our brains stay regulated—and the work stay useful.
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✅ “I’m stuck on this part of the roadmap—can we unpack it?”
✅ “Quick Q: what do I do if X happens with the system doc?”
❌ “Quick question!” followed by a 700-word data dump.
(My brain loves clarity. Help me help you.)
sensory + scheduling stuff
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Camera optional, always
Quiet is golden
Fidget toys, blankets, movement? Yes, please
Good audio > good lighting
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No back-to-backs
Tues–Thurs is my sweet spot
CST, standard-ish hours
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Workshop calls = fixed group times
1:1s = book 48+ hrs ahead
Need to reschedule? Totally fine with 24+ hrs notice
what I ask from you
tell me what’s real
If you’re struggling, say so. I don’t judge—I adapt.
be honest about your capacity
If you’re in a crashy season, I’ll meet you there. We’ll pause. We’ll flex.
respect my limits too
They’re not walls—they’re what make the work sustainable. For me, and for you.
wanna chat about working together?
💬 Curious if our styles match?
🤝 Need accommodations I haven’t named?
🧠 Want to feel how I work before diving in?
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